When I first had kids, I thought it was more about looking like you knew what you were doing than actually knowing how to do it. I tried my best, but it always seemed like things weren't going my way. My babies had a hard time sleeping, my toddler was always making messes, and my school-age children had trouble following directions in class. To make things right, I hired a family counselor to come in and work with us to streamline our day to day ritual. I learned a lot about family relationships from her, and I can honestly say that she made a big difference for us. Check out this blog for more information.